I don't really know how often if at all my family reads this blog. All I know is that I come in here and write what and when I can. They are my feelings and thoughts that I share and lately I'm a little blocked.
There is some major hurt feelings and bad blood being thrown around these days. Things done can't be undone and we forget what family means.
The ones that are constantly telling me that I don't think of family on a daily basis are doing everything they can to break up what they constantly fight for.
Our mom and dad were together for 50 years. They didn't always get along. They didn't always agree. Heck I remember some pretty serious fights while growing up. They did however stick together through the thick and thin. They were there for each other and for us. I feel the least we could do is prove to them that we can do the same.
It is said that a friend may come and go, but a family member is always there. I love my family very much. I try to stay neutral when it comes to fights and such, but this last episode of, "no you didn't," has gone way too far. I am really sad because I don't know what to do.
Well, what can I say, I agree that this has gone way too far. But we are all adults and make our own choices (good & bad). Sad thing is this is not who we are, we have always had our differences and talked (or screamed) them out, cleared the air and moved on. I didn't make the choice to disown anyone. I have always been one to help everyone, it's just sad that it came to this but it is what it is, God Bless everyone involved!
ReplyDeleteThe choice to disown someone was not made today, last week or even last year. We have always been divided by "don't tell Mary Ann". I love my family dearly and except them the way they are, as they except me and mine, however, there is a time to say enough is enough. I do not except the fact that someone laid their hands on my child (neither would any of you) the fact that she is grown makes no difference. I am hurt that the person I considered my best friend feels my child played the "disabled card" to her benefit. Has this gone way too far? Maybe, but someone has to say enough. What we feel counts too.
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